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Tomorrow is laundry & packing day - and wrapping up all those little stocking stuffers. Yes, we do wrap even the stocking stuff! And tomorrow night we'll be celebrating the Winter Solstice at a friends home - with harp and song, prayer and thanksgiving - and snacks!
This year, as in the recent past (since we have no room for a tree in our townhouse), I've decorated our windows with lights on the inside and hung clear glass ornaments from the curtains. It's a trick my mom taught us when Dad was sick with ALS and she couldn't put a tree up all by herself. She dragged the ornaments down from the 3rd floor attic and hung them in every conceivable place - but mostly in the living and dining room windows where Dad could see them from his hospital bed in the dining room.

Mom hung all our ornaments around the house that last year - every kind and color of the rainbow since she was a holiday decorating fanatic. She left them up until February or March that year. They were quite a couple - for much of their lives Dad had taken care of Mom and pampered her but in the last three years of their lives, he was too ill and Mom took care of Dad and pampered him with wit, love, humor and playfulness. They died 8 days apart from totally different illnesses - they stayed together after teaching us how to live...and how to die gracefully.
I guess I'm still walking down memory lane...
I guess I'm still walking down memory lane...
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